CHRISTIANITY

Are We What We Think We Are?

Posted by Bobby Cohoon on November 09, 2012
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No one can deny that America has just gone through the most negative election cycle in recent memory, if not in its short history as a nation. It seemed early on that the motto was, “If we can change the way they think about a certain candidate we can change the way they behave.”  In other words, if candidate A can paint candidate B as something of an undesirable character candidate A can change their behavior in the voting booth. Backus and Chapian (1980) wrote, “The constant repeating of misbeliefs is what sustains the perpetual angry resentment” (p.51).  Do people really buy into such negativity or do they “fact check” and make informed decisions?

America is now a country in which there is some question about Maslow’s hierarchy of needs (physical, security, love, purpose, self-actualization). Maslow suggests that people will not be motivated to meet the higher needs until the lower ones are met. If that is the case, in a country like America where unemployment is up drastically and wages are down, could the people suffering in this economy be influenced by negative advertising? The answer is a resounding yes.

If people who are out of work and struggling hear candidate A paint candidate B as one who will not help them, and as a matter of fact he is one who will put them more in chains, this will influence their beliefs. Crabb (1977) writes, “Each of us has been programmed in his or her unconscious mind to believe that happiness, worth, joy—all the good things of life – depend upon something other than God” (91). And, in America that something else is the Government.

If group 1 is a group that is struggling in the current world, their thinking will probably be something less than positive. If that is complicated by candidate A saying that candidate B cares nothing for group 1, the negative thought pattern is reinforced. And, if candidate A continues the negative stimuli candidate B becomes ingrained as an undesirable candidate. Even if the negative attacks make people view candidate A in an unfavorable way he may lose some votes, but he has painted the negative picture of candidate B and that image sticks.

While it is true that we cannot change people—no matter how negative candidate A gets anyone listening always has the choice to believe or not believe, to check facts, or any number of things—we do influence their thinking. Paul said “Let your speech always be with grace” (Colossians 4:6). Ours is not to make ourselves look better than the other person at the risk of tearing the other person to shreds. While we use self talk to help ourselves we allow what comes out of the mouth to tear others down.

It has to at all times be remembered that Jesus said, “It is not what enters into the mouth that defiles the man, but what proceeds out of the mouth, this defiles the man” (Matthew 15:11). While we use our self talk to build ourselves up (and that self talk has to be biblical) we have to remember that when our self talks it should not degrade others. We are what we think. And, what we say does influence others, whether what we say is true or not.

If you are in the area stop by and see us at the Belvidere-Ryland Church of Christ.

 

Until next time May The Good Lord Bless And Keep You: All Y’all!

Bobby Cohoon

Minister, Belvidere-Ryland Church of Christ

North Carolina, USA
bobby@bobbycohoon.com

 

 

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URBI ET ORBI

Posted by Bobby Cohoon on March 30, 2009
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I live in what was once a small county: everyone pretty much knew everyone. That has changed somewhat in the last few years as more and more people have moved in. And it seems that as more have moved in the social degree of the county has dropped off some. People don’t seem to know their neighbors as much as they did in years past. The world has become fast paced. When people get off of work they have time to eat then run somewhere else; Often times the are eating on the run. They make time for everything imaginable. But guess what the one thing they rarely make time for is: The commission of Jesus Christ.

Jesus said, Therefore go and make disciples of all nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit, and teaching them to obey everything I have commanded you. And surely I am with you always, to the very end of the age” (Matthew 28:19-20). In this world of networking we have the “go” down to a fine art. Yet, too often we neglect the only command in the Great Commission of Matthew: Make Disciples! We are great in our comfort zones. Meeting for an hour on Sunday is always done. We may meet for a small group Bible study with a group full of believers. But, what do we do to make disciples?

In our neighborhoods and the general areas that we travel daily there are plenty of people who don’t know the one true and living God. Sadly we don’t have time in our busy lives to share that message. We pass them daily. We may even take a minute to speak to them. Yet, we never seem to turn the conversation to Jesus. If they are poor we may even make a charitable donation or give some old clothes to try and alleviate their living conditions. And, that is great, but it is not what we are called to do: We are called to make disciples.

We network daily and nightly on the internet, not just with our city, but with the world. Maybe we become involved in e-mail chess. Maybe we are interacting with others trying to learn, or even trying to teach, about our favorite sport or pastime. We enter chat rooms and e-groups with people from all over the world. In the course of a day’s time we go from the city to the world. And remember Jesus said, “You will be my witnesses in Jerusalem, and in all Judea and Samaria, and to the ends of the earth” (Acts 1:8b). We are to be witnesses to our city and to the world. And, yet in our cities and to the ends of the earth we can’t seem to find time to work Christ into the conversation.

Every day we go from the city to the world. And, sadly while we are there we fail to mention the one who made the cities and the world. Is today the day you take Christ to the city and to the world?

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Bobby Cohoon
North Carolina, USA
bobby@bobbycohoon.com

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